The heroine ya nkhaniyi sangavomereze kuti kusungidwa mwamphamvu kumavulaza wodwala yemwe ali ndi matenda ashuga. Anachita kuyang'anira mwamunayo, yemwe anakana kuvomereza kuti akudwala. Izi zinachitika atangobadwa kumene mimba itangoyipa.
Tabwereranso ku mutu wokhudza kubereka. Mwina munawerengapo nkhani ya mayi wamtsogolo omwe ali ndi matenda ashuga, ndipo osati kale kwambiri pomwe okonza adalankhula ndi mtsikana yemwe akuyembekezeranso mwana. Ali ndi thanzi labwino, koma amadziwa zambiri momwe angalipire shuga. Chowonadi ndi chakuti mwamuna wake ali ndi vutoli (atapempha heroine, sitimamupatsa dzina, ndipo tinasinthanso dzina la mnzake).
Kumayambiriro kwa chaka cha 2017, amuna anga atatsala pang'ono kupeza mtundu wachiwiri wa matenda ashuga, amayi anga adafuula: "Banja musiyane! Chifukwa chiyani mukufunika katunduyu!". Apongozi, omwe m'mbuyomu anali osasangalala kwambiri ndi ukwati wa "mwana wawo," adafuwula kuti: "Musasiye Serezhenkuuu ...". Adali ndimantha, ndipo amuna anga, atakhala zaka 42 pamalingaliro a "mavuto onse atha kuphweka," adakhala chete ngati njovu.
"Ndikudya zabwino zokha," adatero. Sergey adayang'ana matenda ake ngati kachitsulo kakang'ono, komwe adakumana nako paulendo wake wamoyo. Adatsala pang'ono kumudumpha ndi kuthamangira. Madotolo adamuchenjeza: ngati matenda ashuga sawagwiritsa, angayambitse zovuta zazikulu. Chaka choyamba amuna anga ankalamulira shuga ndikugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala onse omwe adalandira. Ndipo atawerenga malangizowo kuchokera mu mutu wakuti “Energy of Positive Thoughts”, adayamba kuwatenga kuti awagwire, osaganiza kuti iwowo samugwiritsa ntchito. "Muyenera kumangobwereza nokha kuti palibe chomwe chimakupwetekani, ndiye kuti sichingapweteke. Pano sizipweteka kwa ine. Anthu olumala ayamba kuyenda chifukwa akhulupirira kuti zinthu zikuwayendera. Anthu akhungu ayamba kuwona. Ogwiritsa ntchito njinga ya olumala ali ndi mabanja ndipo amabereka ana," anaganiza.
Nditamvetsera zokamba izi, ndinapumula (pamapeto, mwamuna wanga ndi munthu wamkulu, zaka 10 kwa ine) ndipo patatha miyezi ingapo ndidapeza phukusi la mayeso lomwe silinayesedwe. "Bwanji simukuyeza shuga?" Ndidafunsa amuna anga. Adalondola milomo yake mwachipongwe (adakwiya ndi kutchulidwa konse kwamatendawa) ndikunena kuti sadavulaze chilichonse.
Nthawi imeneyo, sindinkaganiza kuti tsogolo lingakhale zovuta chotani, makamaka ndikangoyambitsa matenda. Ndipo lero, tsiku lililonse ndimakhala ndi mndandanda wa anthu awiri: Ndimakumbukira mndandanda wazogulitsa ndi GI. Sergey amatha kukhala ndi zukini, biringanya, bowa, mazira ndi nkhuku. Mndandanda wazakudya zoletsedwa kwambiri umaphatikizapo zotsekemera, ufa, pasitala. Kwa amuna anga, omwe amatha kudzuka usiku ndikupita kukhitchini kukadulira maswiti, kuphedwa kumeneku kuli kofanana, koma kulibe komwe angapite ...
Zizindikiro zake za matenda ashuga sizothandiza kwenikweni. Mwamuna wake nthawi zambiri amafuna kumwa, ndipo izi zitha kuchitikira aliyense. Kutentha kwake kunkwera nthawi ndi nthawi, ndipo anali atatopa. Tikati izi ndi ntchito kwambiri.
Kwambiri adakonda kugona m'mawa kutsogolo kwa TV ndi botolo la mowa. Nthawi ina ndidamuuza kuti mzanga amabwera kwa ife kwa masiku angapo, pomwe Sergei adagudubuzika m'maso: "Apanso abwenzi? Mungakhale bwanji!". Ankakonda kulumikizana, koma tsopano amadana ndi alendo.
Panalinso vuto lina. Kugonana kwa Sergei kwatsika moonekeratu. Kuchulukirapo, sanandifuna, kapena kufuna, koma "anali waulesi," ndipo "ndimangofunika kugonana naye." Nthawi ina, ndidamuuza mosamala za matenda ashuga ndikulimbikitsa kupita kwa dokotala, mwachitsanzo, endocrinologist.
Sergey mwachisawawa anathamangitsidwa. Monga, madotolo adalakwitsa pamene adamupeza ndi izi. Monga kuti sizokhudza matenda ashuga, koma za mphuno. Ndipo ndimamukonda ndi mtima wonse ndipo ndimaganiza kuti chilichonse chomwe chikuchitika ndimtambo wakuda, kapena nthawi yoyipa, pambuyo pake zonse zitha kukhala bwino. Mwamuna anali kukulirakulira m'njira zosawerengeka, nthawi zonse anali achisoni.
Posakhalitsa tinayamba kukambirana za kubadwa kwa oyamba kubadwa (momwe tingakwaniritsire izi kukambirana ndi munthu atangogona pamaso pa TV). Mwana uyu ndi woyamba kukhala tonse, ndipo ndimakhulupirira kuti kubadwa kwake kungapulumutse ukwati wathu womwewo.
Sergey sanapirire. Mavuto okhumudwa komanso achisoni abwereranso kwa iye pafupipafupi. Anali wonenepa kwambiri, ndipo ngati kumayambiriro kwa chaka cha 2017 anali wolemera makilogalamu 80 okha, ndiye kuti mu 2018 anali atangotsala 102. Sanadzukire usiku wokoma, nthawi zambiri bokosi la chokoleti linagona patebulo la kutsogolo kwa kama. Anatinso abambo onse ali ndi ufulu wokhala ndi mimba.
Kenako ndinatenga pakati. Mimba inali yabwino, koma nditangoona mayeso awiri, ndinadandaula kuti mwana atha kutenga matenda omwe abambo ake adayesetsa kuti asawone.
Ndidathamangira ku reception ku LCD. Madokotala sananene chilichonse chotsutsa. Wina anali wotsimikiza kuti shuga sangatengeko kuchokera kwa abambo, wina adalangiza kuti ayambe kuwunika thanzi la mwana kuyambira pakubadwa.
M'mwezi wachitatu ndinasokonekera. Ndidachokera ku gynecologist, ndipo mmalo mwa chithandizo chomwe ndidamva kwa amuna anga akutanthauza "osadandaula, tidzakhala ndi mwana", atatha mawu awa adayang'ananso pa TV ... Pamenepo nthawi yomweyo misempha yanga idatha. Ndinalira usiku wonse, ndipo m'mawa ndinanenetsa kuti: "Ngati ndikusamalirani, pitani kwa dokotala."
Kenako ndidaganiza kuti mavuto onse amachokera ku matenda ashuga, omwe Sergei sanafune kuzindikira. Ndi khunyu komanso kukayikira kwambiri, anavomera kupita ku phwandoli. "Matendawa atha kukhala omwe amayambitsa mavuto anu," adokotala anatero.
Shuga wa Sergey anali okwera kwambiri. Zinapezeka kuti adayambitsa matenda mwadongosolo, omwe amafunika kuthandizidwa mwachangu, mwachangu! Mayi anga adadziwa izi: "Tengani chisudzulo ngati mukufuna moyo wabwinobwino! Ndakuchenjezani - simunamvere!". Amuna anga anali oletsedwa mwamphamvu kudya ufa, maswiti ndi chilichonse chomwe chimapangitsa kuti glucose ikwere. Ndinafunika kudya ndi madotolo ndikuyang'anira momwe timadyera komanso shuga yathu.
Panali kumverera kuti ndinatenga Sergei pa bail. Zinkawoneka kuti ndasintha kukhala mayi woipa, koma nthawi yomweyo, ine ndi mwamuna wanga timakondana kwambiri. Mwinanso chifukwa adasewera mgulu lomwelo pamunda wa "Matenda A shuga".
Ndipo madzulo, pamene mwamuna wanga amagona, ndinaphunzira intaneti pamutu "momwe ungakhalire ndi pakati ngati bambo ali ndi matenda ashuga." Chidziwitso chosiyana ndi nyanja inali nyanja. "Ndili ndi pakati 4 IVF, amuna anga ali ndi matenda ashuga." Kapena: "Amuna omwe ali ndi matenda ashuga ndi osabereka!". Wina amawopa ana odwala, wina, monga amayi anga, adanditsimikizira kuti palibe moyo ndi munthu wodwala. Kenako adasinthana pamalo kupita ku malo azachipatala ndipo adazindikira kuti abambo oterewa atha kukhala ndi vuto la umuna kupatsirana kwa DNA. Pankhaniyi, chiopsezo cha kumangidwa mluza chikukula ndi chachikulu, kapena mimba ikhoza kutha, monganso zomwe zidatichitikira.
Mimba yochokera kwa mwamuna ikanabwera mosavuta, koma sizivuta kufotokoza. Mwa amayi khumi otere oyembekezera, 5 (!) Mapeto ake atasokonezedwa, muzochitika zapamwamba - 8. Bwanji ngati tatembenuza kale mlandu wonyalanyazidwa?!
Momwe ndimachiritsira Sergei, ndimayang'anitsitsa thanzi langa ndikulakalaka mwana, ndidayamba kutsimikiza kuti sitingachite popanda thandizo la mankhwala olera. Panali zidziwitso zambiri pa intaneti, koma kunalibe konkriti komwe angayankhe funso lalikulu - kodi mwana wosabadwa uyu adzalandira matendawa?
Dokotala wakuberekera wa Center for IVF adati sindimakhala ndi vuto lililonse ndi isanayambike mimba, koma amuna anga akuyenera kuwayang'ana. Adatilondolera kuti tikakumane ndi a urologist.
"Ndikofunikira kuchita IVF + PIXI pomwe spermatozoa imayang'aniridwa ndi zina. Zimachitika pamaziko a umunthu wa khungu lobala la amuna. Ma spermatozoa okhwima kwambiri omwe amakhala ndi DNA yolimba ndipo ali ndi mwayi wosankhidwa," adatero dokotala Maxim Kolyazin.
Kuthekera kwa kugawanika kwa DNA mu spermatozoa yomwe yasankhidwa ndi embryologist wa ICSI / PIXI njira yotsika kuposa nthawi ya umuna wa IVF (kapena panthawi yachilengedwe). Mwachidule, ndi njirayi, mwayi wosankha "zinger" zopindulitsa kwambiri ndizochulukirapo. Pamndandanda wazowonetsa: milandu yayikulu ya kubereka amuna, zalephera IVF protocol ndi zolakwika.
Tidakhala opusa bwanji pomwe sitinasamale za matenda ashuga ... Tsopano zakhala zoipa zathu zazikulu. Mwamwayi, palibe zomwe zimachitika kuti munthu ali ndi pakati kuchokera kwa bambo yemwe ali ndi matenda ashuga, madokotala amalamula kuti azichita ngati ndi pakati. Makamaka chidwi ndi thupi lanu ndikumamvetsera m'miyezi yoyamba.
Sindinkafuna kuchita zoopsa. Tinalowa mu protocol ya IVF + PIXI mu Seputembara 2018. Ndinkada nkhawa kwambiri. Aliyense wotupa ndi kuzizira wamba kumandiwoneka ngati ndimavuto akulu azaumoyo omwe amaopseza kutenga pakati. Tili paubwenzi ndi Alena Druzhinina nthawi yobereka, amanditsimikizira komanso kundilimbikitsa.
"Pali lingaliro lakubadwa kwa matenda ashuga. Chifukwa chake, mwana wanu ayenera kuyamba kupewa posachedwa. Komabe, mwayi woti matendawa adzalandiridwa ndi mwana, motere, ndi ochepa. Ngati mayiyo akudwala, chiwopsezocho ndi chachikulu," adatero adokotala.
Vuto langa likuwoneka kale kwambiri. Kulemera, ndipo mnzanu amachepetsa. Mwamuna uja adamveranso chidwi. Tikhala ndi mtsikana! Tasankha kale dzina lake. Mimba imayenda bwino. Ku chipatala cha anthu okonzekera kubereka, amanditcha mmodzi wa odwala achitsanzo chabwino. Popeza mnzanga amadya, ndimatsatiranso. Ndikuganiza kuti tili ndi chakudya chopatsa thanzi koposa zonse.
